Paulina Porizkova and Ric Ocasek hadn't had sex in 'years.'

Paulina Porizkova and Ric Ocasek separated in 2018 after "years" without sex.

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In her book "No Filter: The Good, the Bad, and the Beautiful," the 57-year-old model says her "method of communication and connection" with the Cars musician was "physical." She says, "He stopped touching me." "The romance was doomed."

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In 1984, she starred in the Cars' "Drive" music video. 1989: They wed. "He was my world," she writes. "I'd always wanted to be important to someone. Affectionate."

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As Jonathan and Oliver grew, fractures formed in their marriage. Her "adoration" was waning, replaced by a more mature affection.

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She writes, "I saw his limits." He required my adoration. Obsession. He understood love thus. Any disagreement made him withdraw.

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The "Anna" actor visited a psychic about her future sex life when she feared her marriage was "broken beyond repair."

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She adds, "At 52, my husband hadn't touched me in years, and I felt invisible." "I wanted to know if I'd have sex again. I needed motivation.

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After splitting with Ocasek, she met an unknown man and became "totally and passionately" in love. Porizkova's then-boyfriend left her on the day movers packed up her condo possessions.

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"He left me standing in the center of an empty house," she writes. She bought alcohol, smoked, started a fire, grieved, and "slept wrapped in a moving blanket in my children's old room."

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After Ocasek died in 2019, Porizkova dated Aaron Sorkin and attended the Oscars with him. They split in 2021.

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The former Estée Lauder spokeswoman told Page Six she's on two dating apps but not having much luck.

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"I've gotten dates from both, and they're the same," she said. "Either they're intimidated and only talk about themselves. The other scenario is that he's scared and can't speak.

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